I am finding it obvious that I have to start demanding far more specificity on things with the people in my life now.
The ex uses terms like, "same as usual". Then ensues the drama of Friday.
The gf says she will be here "earlier" today, references an 11 AM doctor appointment. Talked on the phone a while ago, she makes a vague statement about seeing me after a memorial for a friend, which takes place this evening. Apparently we have different definitions of early or earlier.
So in each case, I am going to have to demand actual time schedules. I have other things to do and I put things off or arrange my schedule to accommodate theirs.
Apparently, I have to be more dominating because other people will not respect my life if I do not. I do not appreciate it. I should not have to take control that much. However, I will since I have to. I'm left with no choice.
The ex uses terms like, "same as usual". Then ensues the drama of Friday.
The gf says she will be here "earlier" today, references an 11 AM doctor appointment. Talked on the phone a while ago, she makes a vague statement about seeing me after a memorial for a friend, which takes place this evening. Apparently we have different definitions of early or earlier.
So in each case, I am going to have to demand actual time schedules. I have other things to do and I put things off or arrange my schedule to accommodate theirs.
Apparently, I have to be more dominating because other people will not respect my life if I do not. I do not appreciate it. I should not have to take control that much. However, I will since I have to. I'm left with no choice.
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