Before closing out my singles profiles, I took one last look around. It was a reminder of why I have had one coffee date in 5 years.
Too common trends. Women seeking "bad boys". Then expect those men to wind up later having manners, treating them with respect or giving them child support instead of paying for the next tattoo or hanging with their "homies". That is, if the same guy isn't in jail, on their knees in front of some other bad boys. Maybe they really believe they will not wind up in ICU or the next 10 second story on the evening news, which is more likely to show the attacker in court and barely mention the woman's name at all.
Too many "BBW's" who can barely walk a block without breaking into a cold sweat and doubling over to breathe. Yeah, that's attractive.
Too many women have tattoos and piercings as a standard for dating. Because that's not superficial.
The common theme between all of these is lack of effort. Looking for a bad boy? Put on high heels and nail polish, take off your clothes and effort accomplished. BBW? Cook dinner (or order out), turn on the TV and you're done. Piercings? Spend your money, lie in a chair and apply ointment for a couple of weeks.
I can criticize but I've been lazy, myself. Though admittedly different, since I have not been so actively seeking something outside. It is time I get out and put some effort into my social life. Obviously, I'm not going to find anything worth finding on a website.
Too common trends. Women seeking "bad boys". Then expect those men to wind up later having manners, treating them with respect or giving them child support instead of paying for the next tattoo or hanging with their "homies". That is, if the same guy isn't in jail, on their knees in front of some other bad boys. Maybe they really believe they will not wind up in ICU or the next 10 second story on the evening news, which is more likely to show the attacker in court and barely mention the woman's name at all.
Too many "BBW's" who can barely walk a block without breaking into a cold sweat and doubling over to breathe. Yeah, that's attractive.
Too many women have tattoos and piercings as a standard for dating. Because that's not superficial.
The common theme between all of these is lack of effort. Looking for a bad boy? Put on high heels and nail polish, take off your clothes and effort accomplished. BBW? Cook dinner (or order out), turn on the TV and you're done. Piercings? Spend your money, lie in a chair and apply ointment for a couple of weeks.
I can criticize but I've been lazy, myself. Though admittedly different, since I have not been so actively seeking something outside. It is time I get out and put some effort into my social life. Obviously, I'm not going to find anything worth finding on a website.
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