GF came over on Thur. We had a good night in many respects. The best so far in some ways. I needed that badly. I was surprised because she was really sore from her exercise classes. But I gave her a massage early in the evening. (Not with any intent but relieving her pain.)
She voices more interest in sex than she had been. Including things we have discussed before. Starting to lean that way on occasion. Have to wait and see if it continues. I love her very much and want to know my own needs and desires will be met inside of our relationship.
Fri she was sick. Gastric problems. Still sick today. So don't get to see her from Thur until Tue. I have to work the afternoon shift tomorrow.
Then daughter had a sinus infection this weekend. She followed my advice and it's nearly gone already. We just didn't do much this weekend. She played a lot of video games.
I've run some numbers and figure if I work enough and control my expenses I can save up at least $1000 a month on the new job. So in only a few months I will be able to make a decent down payment on a house. Prices are low here and this job puts me fairly high on the pay spectrum for the area. I also expect the housing market to tank soon, driving prices down further. Interest rates will go up and that part sucks but it is what it is. Try and work things out so I have a low monthly payment so it's not a risk. Get money in savings for security. Make extra payments toward capital.
Before then, I need to invest in a few things. Like a second vehicle. Pretty sure the timing belt on this one is about to go. Should last a few more weeks. I want to see how much it will cost to have that and the AC done in the shop. But in any case, I need another vehicle to drive while this one is down for repairs. Even if I wind up doing the work myself. I prefer having a second vehicle for safety, any way. Plus an extra vehicle may be a good idea before GF and I move in together because there's no way to predict what her soon-to-be-ex will do. Not expecting violence but financial and property sabotage. So it would be best to have something we can each drive.
I'm going to start window shopping, browsing property for sale in the area. Just get a loose handle on what is here.
She voices more interest in sex than she had been. Including things we have discussed before. Starting to lean that way on occasion. Have to wait and see if it continues. I love her very much and want to know my own needs and desires will be met inside of our relationship.
Fri she was sick. Gastric problems. Still sick today. So don't get to see her from Thur until Tue. I have to work the afternoon shift tomorrow.
Then daughter had a sinus infection this weekend. She followed my advice and it's nearly gone already. We just didn't do much this weekend. She played a lot of video games.
I've run some numbers and figure if I work enough and control my expenses I can save up at least $1000 a month on the new job. So in only a few months I will be able to make a decent down payment on a house. Prices are low here and this job puts me fairly high on the pay spectrum for the area. I also expect the housing market to tank soon, driving prices down further. Interest rates will go up and that part sucks but it is what it is. Try and work things out so I have a low monthly payment so it's not a risk. Get money in savings for security. Make extra payments toward capital.
Before then, I need to invest in a few things. Like a second vehicle. Pretty sure the timing belt on this one is about to go. Should last a few more weeks. I want to see how much it will cost to have that and the AC done in the shop. But in any case, I need another vehicle to drive while this one is down for repairs. Even if I wind up doing the work myself. I prefer having a second vehicle for safety, any way. Plus an extra vehicle may be a good idea before GF and I move in together because there's no way to predict what her soon-to-be-ex will do. Not expecting violence but financial and property sabotage. So it would be best to have something we can each drive.
I'm going to start window shopping, browsing property for sale in the area. Just get a loose handle on what is here.
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